Waiting to have sex – Does it affect the quality of your relationship?
Could it be negative – or positive implications of being celibate during a relationship?
Celibacy as a act has no links with being in a relationship or not. That at this point should be obvious to all by now.
Deciding to have sex at a particular time [or not ] ought to base in a personal decision, a strong decision that should be independent of the opinions of others.
Still on the matter, what’s to be considered next is whether or not celibacy affects the type of relationship you aspire to have.
If your partner could be in a relationship in that long period of sexlessness. Could it be negative – or positive implications of being celibate during a relationship?
The answer to this, considering many relationship questions, lies much on the conditions of the situation.
A relationship specialist, Presious Alams on celibacy in relationships says. “Once any issue has to do with a human being …- A lot of things need to be put into consideration. How the couple in question feel about themselves, what kind of relationship are they Into, and the quality of the relationship. Then can you know if “waiting to have sex” affects the relationship or not. If it’s a strong relationship between two people who are deeply in love with each other even without having sex. Then waiting to have sex won’t be a problem to them if they remain faithful and loyal to themselves. Especially if they find a way to release the sexual tension that may come along with their intimacy.
It’s easier if both couples understand what they are getting into
For persons who have clearly said that they want celibacy before entering into the relationship, and already sit on it with their partner before getting involved. Then it’s unexpected that such relationship will be ruined with sex-related issues.
Where two people are okay with the act of celibacy and are mentally aware of what the implications. It is clear that such relationship won’t experience rockiness, at least in that regard.
The only thing people in such relationship would try is how to go pass by all the motions in romantic ways excluding sex. And in this article here, we try to detail, all the things you can do to be happy although in a celibate relationship.
If the sex desires aren’t on the same page
On the other hand, when only one partner permits to the idea of a sexless relationship and the other silently desires. To have a change in mind before they feel ready for it, the relationship gets destabilized. With problems relating to urge to have sex, quarrels, resentment and a feeling of dissatisfaction on one partner’s part. At best – both of them would be feeling the effects of disconnection in sexual needs.
In conclusion, this takes us back to the subject, the vital necessity of having that sincere talk with a partner about your expectations. And the how far you can go when it comes to sex and how the relationship will shape in.
Not having this conversation before the relationship begins or in its starting moments. Will create issues for yourself that might not have happened